South Jersey Mom Blogger


Kon’nichiwa (hello in Japanese)!  I’m Nesha (aka #BOSSMOM), a South Jersey mom blogger dedicated to sharing my #BOSSFAMILY with the rest of the world.  I am a mother to 3 #BOSSGIRLS – an amazing 5-year-old and identical 2-year-old twins.  Yes GIRLS DO ROCK in my family, but we could not rock without the support and love from my loving husband who we will refer to as #BOSSDAD.  We are a very young, highly energetic family and there is NEVER a dull moment under this roof (lol) – no sarcasm at all, I really mean it!  The great thing is…we are ready to share those moments with you.

I’ve been contemplating starting my own blog for about 2 years now and I’m so happy I have struck up the courage (and time, of course) to finally jump out there.  With the launch of HIGHLY CAFFEINATED in 2016, I have so many ideas running thru my head that I can barely sleep at night.  My dedication and “pinky swear” promise is to be an unbiased resource to families trying to figure out how to juggle little ones while being full-time working #BOSSPARENTS.  I have not, nor will I ever self-proclaim to know it all, but I will share my journey as I figure out how to manage life in many directions while being the best parents GOD has sent for us to be.

I said all of that just to say this (lol)…I love caffeine and lots of it.  In this family, a warm Caramel Macchiato from Starbucks every morning (I’m trying to dwindle to only 2 mornings) will make you smile really, really, really big.

With love + caffeine,



BOSSGIRLS at Hyatt Place

(From left to right) S. Lynn (2), S. London (2) and M. Marie (5)

These #BOSSGIRLS are the reason why I’m blogging.  They give me LIFE and are the main reason why I need caffeine in my life.  I look forward to many spa services and high heels in the (far) future!



We are both full-time working parents with an amazing support system.  I work full time for a Fortune 100 company and he works for a state civil service branch. Needless to say…we are tired (very tired), but we MAKE IT HAPPEN!  This #BOSSDAD is my everyday crush…the hell with MCM (Man Crush Mondays).

PHOTO CREDIT: (c) 2013 Terrapol Pothing via Flickr